If somebody won’t be with you because of your identity, then they really aren’t worth your time.
“He won’t like me since I’m trans.” Then don’t like him back.
“She’ll break up with me if she knows I’m bi.” Then break up with her first.
“They wont date me because I’m ace.” Then don’t date them.
There are plenty of people out there, both allies and LGBT+ folks, who will begin and keep relationships with ace/aro peeps, nb/trans peeps, and bi/pan peeps. Don’t waste your time on those who won’t. You are worth a relationship with somebody who is not just tolerant of your identity, but celebrates it with you.
Don’t date somebody who “doesn’t mind” your violin hips, date somebody who will want to kiss them every day.
Don’t date somebody who will “put up with” your religious beliefs, date somebody who will celebrate them with you.
Don’t date somebody who says “it’s okay” that you have stretch marks, date somebody who runs their fingers over them in fascination.
Don’t date somebody who will “wait for you” if you want to take things slow, date somebody who will wait with you.
Omg thank you. I need this
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