I’ll just leave this right here
Props to the artist for the hand shadow
“Illustrator Rob Jacobs hits the mark after Trump’s decision to separate children from migrant parents”
This deserves all the attention it can possibly get
I want to tell y’all a story about supporting and loving your partner, starring my amazing wife.
I’ve mentioned before that I had an eating disorder for many years, and though I consider myself “recovered” there are aspects of my disorder that I still struggle with today — being quite a bit heavier than my wife is one of them.
When my wife and I moved in together back when we were still girlfriends, I was at my skinniest. She used to pick me up all the time and lift me off the ground, and I’d laugh and kick out my legs ‘cause I was just delighted to have her holding me.
But I started gaining weight as I went through recovery, and where once we were pretty close in size, I began to get bigger. And bigger. And bigger. And she remained her naturally petite self. I began to almost dread when she’d try to pick me up, sure that this time she wouldn’t be able to get me off the ground.
But every time, even if I protested, she’d lift me up and say something like: “See, you’re not so big that I can’t lift you!”
And one time I just blurted out: “But someday I’m going to be so fat you won’t be able to.”
She looked me dead in the eye and said: “No you won’t. Because if that ever happens, I’ll start working out.”
It was the best possible thing she could have said to me, because she wasn’t saying I wasn’t going to get fat — neither of us knew that for sure. She was just saying that I was never going to be “too fat” for her.
And every time I worry about getting bigger, I remember that I’ll never be so big that she can’t lift me, because baby knows how much I love being held, and she’ll change her own habits to ensure that I never feel “too big” or “too heavy” because in her eyes I’ll never be “too” anything.
Anyway, there’s a moral to this story: Find yourself a partner who will never consider you an excess. You should never be “too much” to someone who loves you — too big, too loud, too passionate, too awkward, whatever your “too” happens to be. And even as you change and grow (in my case, literally), the right person will be there through the changes, to tell you that you’re always just right for them.
My strongwoman, the wind beneath my wings, the arms under my ass. 😍😍 😍
vine ask meme
sand guardian: is there anything you’d protect with your life?
hurricane tortilla: favourite food?
welcome to chili’s: favourite restaurant?
I like beer and it likes me: favourite drink (alcoholic or non-)?
is there anything better than pussy?: ever had sex?
adam: do you smoke?
420 whatcha smokin’?: ever done drugs?
valentino white bag: what’s your clothing style?
I can’t believe you’ve done this: what’s the meanest thing you’ve ever done?
I ain’t get no sleep: what keeps you up at night?
a potato flew around the room: what’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever seen?
two bros: what’s your sexuality?
69¢: if you could buy any one thing, what would it be?
what up, I’m jared: what’s your favourite book?
squidward dabbing: what’s your favourite meme?
why you always lyin’?: what’s the last lie you told?
that’s my opinion: what’s an unpopular opinion you have?
and they were roommates: if you could live with anyone, who would it be?
do it for the vine: your followers can ask you any question they like!
try to send one to whoever you reblog from! :)
I’m bored.
Ok so I have thoughts about Incredibles 2 but can I discuss Bao????!?!
The usual Pixar short which was cute and and sweet and heartbreaking…
Like that one moment…y’all know! You know EXACTLY what I’m talking about!!! that MOMENT WHERE YOUR HEART STOPPED AND YOU’RE LIKE WTF JUST HAPPENED?!?!
DID SHE JUST…DID SHE…noooo…no it can’t be…that can’t…she…oh my god…
I sat there for like 5 seconds wondering where the hell they were going with this… they had me friggen invested and then pulled that…my goodness it was horrendous…
Of course it was all symbolic of the mother’s true feelings but jeez if that wasn’t the darkest thing I had witnessed in a Pixar short ever…
friend: hey, me and a couple coworkers are going to go out to drinks if you wanna come
me: *thinking about a klance scene that I’ve been dying to write all day* uhhhh. i have plans
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