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Found family
Prediction: At the end it will be revealed that Hiccstrid are married and Hiccup is telling the story to their son.
Fun Facts from the Reddit Q&A (so far)
The Light Fury does not have a name and is not the last of her kind:
The third movie is about having the “courage to let go” (here come the waterworks):
Hiccstrid future?? Ooh what can’t he spoil? ;)
Here’s more about the hidden world:
I was originally just going to do the Hiccup scrap metal meme but I got carried away…
Accurate representation of me at the theatre watching HTTYD 3
Hey do you guys like the stamp I made
Yes
one of the more valuable things I’ve learned in life as a survivor of a mentally unstable parent is that it is likely that no one has thought through it as much as you have.
no, your friend probably has not noticed they cut you off four times in this conversation.
no, your brother didn’t realize his music was that loud while you were studying.
no, your bff or S.O. doesn’t remember that you’re on a tight deadline right now.
no, no one else is paying attention to the four power dynamics at play in your friend group right now.
a habit of abused kids, especially kids with unstable parents, is the tendency to notice every little detail. We magnify small nuances into major things, largely because small nuances quickly became breaking points for parents. Managing moods, reading the room, perceiving danger in the order of words, the shift of body weight….it’s all a natural outgrowth of trying to manage unstable parents from a young age.
Here’s the thing: most people don’t do that. I’m not saying everyone else is oblivious, I’m saying the over analysis of minor nuances is a habit of abuse.
I have a rule: I do not respond to subtext. This includes guilt tripping, silent treatments, passive aggressive behavior, etc. I see it. I notice it. I even sometimes have to analyze it and take a deep breath and CHOOSE not to respond. Because whether it’s really there or just me over-reading things that actually don’t mean anything, the habit of lending credence to the part of me that sees danger in the wrong shift of body weight…that’s toxic for me. And dangerous to my relationships.
The best thing I ever did for myself and my relationships was insist upon frank communication and a categorical denial of subtext. For some people this is a moral stance. For survivors of mentally unstable parents this is a requirement of recovery.
If it wasn’t stated outright - it wasn’t said.
This is really one of the most important reads
Alright. Story time.
So I’m playing sims4 and I decided to create a new sim with the prime goal to find a man with daddy material and get married ASAP. This is especially challenging since literally all the game generated men are ugly af and I normally resort to girls lol.
Anyway, side note, I’ve had this world for a while and pretty much know all the sims that are occupying it. And yet, this time, I didn’t.
So I’m down at this market, hunting for daddy-material men and I find this great guy. He’s a hipster, nice beard, great occupations but I later find out in the conversation that he’s married! And when I read his name I realize I know exactly who this sim is.
He’s one of the generated sims who’s happily married to his partner named Brent. Best part is the guy’s name is Brant. Brent and Brant.
So, after crying a little bit because I just spent an hour devoting my sims life to seducing this happily married man, I decide to go back and hunt for more future daddies.
Finally, there’s this guy I see and I’m thinking to myself “yeasss a second chance!” And I march my sim right up to this fit guy and try and seduce him. He’s the absolute perfect suitor to be the baby daddy to our future child! And a potential hubby. He’s into art and pets and works out a lot. So I’m feeling more confident and I go and click the option to ask what their relationship status is and
He’s also married.
TO BRANT. I was literally talking to Brent the entire time without even realizing it. I’m practically sobbing because yet again I devoted about an hour trying to seduce this guy.
Both married men were daddy-material and I can’t even have them. I honestly was so done and couldn’t believe that both Brent and Brant somehow looped their way into my sim’s prime objective of life.
So yeah that’s the story of how I found two amazing baby daddies who I couldn’t even use because they are both happily married and I’ve actually in the past accidentally tried to seduce them before.
Now both of them keep messaging me asking to hang out and go shopping and It’s a reminder of what I can’t have.
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