Anonymous asked:
angelrin89 answered:

Excuse you?
Some girl comes onto me, SEVERAL TIMES, even after I repeatable told her I’m not into that stuff, I am not into women, and I would appreciate it if she stop sending me messages, and the messages constantly kept getting dirtier and dirtier-ignoring my requests, ignoring how I told her how she was making me progressively feel more uncomfortable…basically being no different than some creepy male predator that can’t take a hint and what they are doing can be considered sexual harassment, I’M THE BAD GUY HERE, NOT THE PERSON WHO WOULDN’T RESPECT MY WISHES AND LEAVE ME ALONE!
I even state in my tags, MAN OR WOMAN I FIND THIS CREEPY. If you are behaving like a predator I don’t care what your gender or sexuality is, if you make me uncomfortable, you make me uncomfortable, PERIOD!
Oh yeah, totally a homophobe. /eye roll/
Wait, does this mean I can’t flirt with you? Dammit!
Anyway anon, messages like the one she got are totally inappropriate and would be whether or not it came from a gender you were attracted to. She asked them to stop, they persisted. Isn’t “no” supposed to mean “no” or do that only apply to “cis-scum white males”?
Being uncomfortable with someone sending you unwanted, sexually graphic messages doesn’t make you homophobic, just like it wouldn’t make me HETEROPHOBIC if I was uncomfortable with a man sending me messages like that.
Silly Meredith, our friendship is now null void. Dangit, what am I going to do with that James Marsters autograph I got for you that I need to mail to you? I’m a homophobe because an anon said so. Also of course, no only means no when tumblr says it means no. And also what’s next? Will I be asked what I was wearing? Was I asking for it anon?!






